Making the most out of a meetup group in 2025

Yesterday I went to my first Programming meetup for 2025. A goal of mine has been to go to more of these this year. I went to one in 2024 and had a great time, then completely let it slide for the rest of the year. Not this year! There are a few meetup groups for software development who meet less than 30 minutes from my house, so I hope to visit both several times this year.

I saw a question on LinkedIn yesterday on a similar note which asks the question: "What are some actionable steps you can take to make the most out of attending a meetup?" That's a great question and one that I wanted to write a bit more in depth about. Going to a meetup group is essentially networking. It's very similar to conferences, but meetup groups are generally smaller. There may be conference-like presentations, or they may be more casual and people just show up, talk, and code, all while probably drinking some sort of coffee.

In my area, we have a Coffee and Code meetup which is perfect for me. It starts around 10am and goes until 1pm which is the perfect time for me and how I operate (I'm definitely more of a morning person). A little after 10am, we have a standup where we go around the circle and introduce ourselves, talk about any job openings we may know of, and what events are coming up that people can check out. Then we go back to our computers and either code, chat with others, or do little demos with folks on what we are working on and see what others are working on. I had a fantastic time meeting a gentleman who had built out a really neat event application for a non-profit's annual fundraiser. He showed me how he built the mobile app using XCode and Swift.

So what are actionable steps that I'd recommend to others when going to a coding meetup group? See below for a few pointers:

1. Go with a completely open mind. Who knows where your next connection will lead or who you will meet there. And this is also the first point I'm writing about, since I think all the other points below it can fit under this umbrella.
   
   
2. Don't think only about yourself. A mistake I made earlier in my career when "networking" was getting immediately benefits from networking and being in groups. For context, I was in sales and "social selling" had become all the rage. I'd show up to a group or connect with someone on LinkedIn and immediately try to get a sale without a relationship. Don't do this! People can sniff it out when you show up to a meetup only thinking about yourself and what you can "get." Instead, show up with an attitude of what you can GIVE to the group. Reaping rewards (new friends, a job opportunity, project collaborations) will happen with time.
   
   
3. Balance time working on coding projects and talking with people. I went to the meetup this past week for a little over 2 hours. I spent the first hour hacking away on my friend's website I'm building in React, and I spent the next hour or so talking to a few people seeing what they were doing.
   
   
4. Understand that you can contribute to the group no matter your coding experience. There were several people at our meeting this weekend who were JUST learning how to code. They knew some HTML, a little CSS, and were just getting their feet wet with JavaScript. But when they introduced themselves, they said they could help others with HTML and CSS. The point: even if you have just written your first line of HTML, you have something you can contribute or give to the group. Heck, just being there at the meetup and talking to others and listening to them explain their projects and passions is giving to the group. If you are new at coding, take some encouragement that you can contribute to a meetup group almost immediately.

I may revisit this post sometime in the future and add to it, but for now these are some basic points to remember with a meetup group. Don't be nervous or feel any pressure that you have to come away with something from the group. Just go and hang out with fellow programmers!